Thursday, July 29, 2010

Please advice me on what to do.. im a confused teenager who loves her friend too much, can you help me?

what do you think about godsisters? how does the relationship really work?


i have this friend. shes 1 year older than me, but i feel that we really click. i like her, i love being around her. she makes me feel good about myself. the thing is that we cant really spend a lot of time together, we dont have a lot of things in common at school. the only time i spend with her is during softball training. thats how i know her anyway, shes my softball senior and team mate for more than 3 years and we've been getting closer ever since. this is her last year in school and im really bummed out. i dont want to lose her. i like her and she likes me too as friends but we just dont really show it. we're close but not that close. we're close when we're together but as i said we dont spend a lot of time with eachother.should i ask her to be my godsister so i have a forever bond with her even after she leaves school? but what i fear is that being godsisters will screw things up now and i dont want thatPlease advice me on what to do.. im a confused teenager who loves her friend too much, can you help me?
I dont know what to think about the whole Godsisters thing. Just tell her point blank that you'll miss her, and you want her to keep in touch with you. Be the mature one and walk up to her and talk to her. Its that easy. Don't go up to her and say ';hey do you want to be Godsisters?'; Because honestly, unless she believes in all that too.. She'll think youre crazy or joking. Just go up to her Like I said and tell her you want to keep in touch and how you feel! Hopefully she'll feel the same way and you'll have a friend for life! Good LuckPlease advice me on what to do.. im a confused teenager who loves her friend too much, can you help me?
i noe this sounds wierd but i think you should ask her.. that's wat my frenz do
dont worry its just hormones,


FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS BETTER LEFT UPON THE SHELF
Even though she will no longer be in school it doesnt mean this is the end of your friendship. Be sure to call each other often and write and send cards. Make it a point to get together during holidays and wekends to do girl stuff. Be sure to let her know how much u r going to miss her on a daily basis. Cherish her friendship always and be sure to let her know that! Like I said plan ahead with her to say have Sundays be a day just for the 2 of u to do girl things together. That way u have something to look forward too all week long! Good luck to u!
tell her how you feel
Don't be tens and sad the best thing that you should do in the present situation is just go and talk to her that Will make you feel better and said it before it become too late.
It sjust hormones. these things happen. She is obvisouly a good friend. Just tell her how much you lover her as a friend. The feelings will surely pass, if not theres nothing wrong with that either
The best thing is to tell her how you feel, hard to do i know but it is the best thing to do.





If you cant tell her face to face try writting her a letter and telling her.





just stop and think how you would want to be told if the situation was reveresed
first of all u think of ur self that is it a love or just an attraction......you try to talk with her .try to make her think about u.she should feel comfortable with %26amp;when u r sure of that she also feels u..than just propose her that u r in love with her..if she denies than also be calm %26amp; quite coz love means lossing not gaining..love means respecting each others emotions ..u love her innerself not her body so be a true lover...all the best

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