How do you discipline a teenager daughter. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

I have not seen my little sister for almost 6 years because I am in other country. We talked on the phone once in a while. She is now a teenager (15 years old)





This morning my father asked her to write down my contact information. She did not have attention to what I said. She made a mistake again and again. My parent listened to us on the other lines. They told me to my sister that pay more attention. She was upset and hung up the phone. Then, she was crying for no reason. My mom said, my parents want her to go to better high school. She does not want to do that. She complained, cried, and said bad words to my parents.





I was so upset to hear that. However, I tried to tell my parents that she is a teenager. She may act outrage sometimes.





P.S. I was thinking--Well, I was once a teenager, but I did not hung up the phone, cried, and said bad words to other people.





How do you discipline a spoiled teenager?How do you discipline a teenager daughter. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
You just have to let her know who is boss.





Your parents need to tell her straight out to cop on and stop being a little girl. Maybe, if you talked to her she might listen. Seeing you're her older more mature sister, She might look up to you and appreciate you more seeing you're not around as often.





If she doesn't stop, your parents need to take action like grounding her, taking away luxuries like Internet, video games, mobile phone etc.





Good Luck. = )How do you discipline a teenager daughter. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
how do you know she's spoiled? like you said, you haven't seen her in 6 years.


maybe something is bugging her.


maybe talking to you made her upset cus she misses you and when your parents got mad at her, she got even more upset.


it could also be hormones. she's going through a lot of changes right now.


instead of punishing her, they should talk to her and find out what's wrong.
Don't indulge her as much in things she wants. Be firm and do whats best for her. The more she complains the less you do. Let her earn what she gets through good behavior.





Hope this helped.





Fred.
Okay she really didn't do anything THAT bad other than using foul language. You're not from America are you?
Depends. If you know what she wants, take it away...bring her into reality...as far as her education goes, it is hard to go from one school to the next... she might be attached to friends, or a boyfriend...One thing that teenagers do not like at all, and that will send them through the roof is seperating them from what they want or feel they need... Things can make a turn for the worse... but if the parents really feel they have to do something about her attitude, considering that the daughter does nothing in return to deserve staying in that school, take her out, and keep taking things away until she realizes that she needs to submit, or compromise.
It is good to be firm, but I think it is always good to let them know you love them.
You do what your should of done when she was in pigtails.


Turn her over the knee and apply heat to her seat.
';..she was crying for no reason...';





if she's in tears, there's something wrong that can't be cured with discipline. Love her, hug her, make her feel safe and keep talking her until you get her to tell you what is really wrong. She may tell you it's something trivial at first, but it's probably something much bigger.
Hey!





Well teenagers are very different. They have much more attitude. One really affective way to discipline them is to take away their cellphone or computer priveliges.





Good Luck!





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take her creidt cards away and she won't be spoiled. dee dee deee.
Cut all her hair off. Or take away her make up. Or her music. Or tell all her male friends that she farts a lot.
with a sack of oranges