Well, i think that you can only know if you have real love after having experience with relationships first, to know what you are looking for. I guess you can love people before you have experience, but I would call that kind of love more of an infatuation because it usually can't last. Experience gives you an understanding of who you are and how you will act in any situation, which is what a real love will have to stand up to. So generally, i think it'd be pretty hard to find real love as a teenager. But have fun with the infatuation!Can any of you guys give me any advice on infatuation and if youve found it or real love when your teenager?
I'm 16 and I am most definitely in love
WhenI was a teenager, I wanted to be in love so bad it was ridiculous. I claimed to have such intense emotional feelings for every boy I dated, but it wasn't until after my husband and I were married about 4 years (and yes, I dated him on and off through high school,) that I really understood what actual love was. Don't worry. When you're really in love, you will know it. Sometimes you'll think it's love, but love is selfless and it has absolutely NOTHING to do with the way you think or feel. IT's all about the other person.
hmm.. thats a good question!! so many peopel need to read your question.. and MY ANSWER!! becasue i've had more crushes than i care to count.. but now i know i love someone.. and i'll tell yoyu how...
When you love someone.. truly love someone.. you would do anything for them.. just for the fact that you love them.. and they are who they are.. you see...if you love them.. it wouldnt' matter if htey were hospitalized and looked terrible.. permanently.. you would still love them.. its like you've known them forever and they're tied to you on a whole deeper level.. your inside, your soul.. actually is connected to them.. because you love them. so if you wouldn't mind if they were hurt and looked different and if you would trade your life just to gibve them a chance at theirs and if you would do anything for them without ever thinking of them repaying you.. just because you love them.. and you can't htink of any negative things about them.. and all their positive things come to midn when you think about them.. then you probably love them.. but the thing about giving anything/everything just because you lvoe them is the most key part.. i hope this helps!
It's hard to decipher wether it's love or infatuation when your a teenager. It usually starts out as infatuation, but can turn out to be love. You just gotta be aware of your emotions and take it for what it is.
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